Married Life Should  Be Fun

But how do we make time for it between life and having kids?

Motherhood is difficult …

But being married — with kids? The struggle is real.  Maintaining an intimate, passionate and fun relationship while also raising children is a real challenge. Perhaps you have experienced some of this:

>> You don’t have enough time for yourself, let alone your partner.

>> You are exhausted and tired of being tired.

>> You have nothing left to give to anyone by the end of the day.

> > Life’s mundane but crucial tasks like temper tantrums, clogged drains and long hours have zapped all the fun out of your relationship.

What if We Could THRIVE in Marriage …

rather than just Survive

Marriage isn’t just some boring contract we have to uphold.

It can be a fun and joyful experience — even when the rest of our lives are crazy and chaotic — if we put the right kind of energy into the relationship.

With simple shifts in ourselves — and in our relationship — we can move from surviving in our marriage to THRIVING.

It all begins with how WE show up, how much energy WE bring to our life and what WE are willing to do to make things better.

Introducing ReKindle Your Marriage, a 6-Module Self-Study eCourse that offers tender loving care for your marriage to help YOU get unstuck and revive the feelings you once had in your marriage. 

We cannot change our partners. But we can do intimate, inner healing on ourselves to help us feel joyful, energized and passionate, again. We can wake up and be present for each moment together.

ReKindle Your Marriage will Give you Tools to Learn the 6 Foundations of a Strong Marriage:


  1. Learn to focus on each other’s strengths — not weaknesses.
  2. Learn to thrive in positivity not resentment.
  3. Learn to connect and bring a spark of joy back to your relationship.
  4. Learn to be open-minded about each other & celebrate what makes you special.
  5. Learn to nurture yourself AND your relationship.
  6. Learn to look toward the future and plan how you are growing together.

Addy’s Marriage Story


“This has greatly improved my marriage by showing me that we are all in charge of our own happiness, that this is not something that is someone else’s responsibility. My job is to care for myself first and when I am taken care, I have a full well from which to give to my spouse. It’s up to me to work on my own stuff and to not criticize or judge him about his but to offer encouragement and love. We are both on separate paths individually and on the same path that we have chosen to travel together. Those, while they intersect quite a bit, are mutually exclusive entities.” — Adrienne N. of New York

It’s time to Tune In, and Turn On …  

Our whole family suffers when our relationships aren’t in alignment and feeling good.

We’re snippy with our children. Impatient. Even angry.

I created the ReKindle Program after working with dozens of busy moms around the world who were desperate to transform their marriages after years of focusing on raising children.

They wanted to finally start modeling the kind of marriage they want their children to witness each day.

ReKindle offers refreshing “self-care for your marriage”  that busy, intentional mothers like myself need to be able to put that same focus and effort into our marriages that we have been placing on our work, homes and children.

The mission for ReKindle Your Marriage is to help overwhelmed moms who are carrying a lot of responsibility to shift out of a state of resentment in their marriage and into a place of gratitude, abundance and YES in their life and marriage.

When I started making these powerful but subtle changes, I saw my marriage improve. When I started making more concrete shifts in how I was showing up in my relationship, I saw giant leaps in my marriage.

In other words, I paved the way. My partner had to do his part, but I was leading the marriage revolution. And this is how the Abundant Mama Way works to transform families.

About Your ReKindle Guide … Shawn Fink

As a Life Design & Family Wellness Coach that specializes in the highly sensitive mom, I am passionate about empowering women and helping YOU find your voice. I’m passionate about showing YOU how to speak up for yourself and do what feels good in life, motherhood — and marriage.

I’m the Founder of The Abundant Mama Project, an online community and program for women around the world who want to live with more intention, and author of Savoring Slow.

I’m also a busy working mother of twin teenage girls. And a wife trying to do her best each and every day.

Agnes’ Marriage Story

This has helped lead me out of a life of striving for perfection and into this wonderful state of gratitude for the life I have. For my marriage this means I notice the wonderful person I get to share my life with. I notice how lucky I am instead of wishing I was/had/did just a little bit more.

— Agnes N.

ReKindle Your Marriage

Registration Options…

Option 1 — ReKindle

Self-Study Program

 Early Registration:$147

During the ReKindle Your Marriage experience you will work at your own pace on thought-provoking lessons and exercises that you can implement on your own in your marriage — with or without your partner — and on your own timing.


Each week you will receive a new module via email with a printable workbook along with a printable worksheet that includes anywhere from two to three lessons as well as inspiring stories and real, honest conversation starters to use with your partner. The program wraps up with helping you create your marriage toolbox to sustain the energy — and a checklist to refer to each week. You will also be invited to join our FREE Facebook group for support from other ReKindle Your Marriage participants. 

>> Module One— Find Clarity & Get Unstuck from What’s Preventing Your Marriage from Thriving.

>> Module Two — Fire Up Yourself & Your Relationship so You have More Time and Energy for Each Other.

>> Module Three — Discover Ways to Spark Communication and Connection by Building in Refreshing Rituals and Repairs.

>> Module Four — Learn “The Art of Softening” in Mind, Body & Spirit so You Tap into Your Sensual Side. This is about tuning in and turning on.

>> Module Five — Put F-U-N Back into Your Life and Marriage so You are LIVING fully together Each Day + BONUS LESSON — How to Parent as a Team

>> Module Six — Create your own ReKindling Toolbox and Agreement to Mutually Choose to Thrive rather than Survive.

Ready to start building a thriving marriage?

ReKindle Strong Marriage

Coaching Package

(Limited Availability)


ReKindle Strong Marriage Coaching Package is focused on your accountability and action steps. In addition to receiving all the self-study materials and lessons, ReKindle Private Coaching provides these additional benefits:

>> 3 (60 minute) Private Coaching Calls via Phone or Zoom with Shawn directly related to the material you are focused on during the ReKindle Program. The first two sessions will help you uncover and work through any sticking points in your marriage. And the final session will help you define who you want to be in your marriage and to create an action plan around that vision. 

>> Weekly Accountability Dashboard — This is a game changer. You’ll receive access to a private dashboard with weekly coaching questions to respond to in order to stay accountable for implementing your ReKindle lessons as well as self-reflection. These emails will help you work through any struggles you are having as well. You will also receive an email back from Shawn with SUGGESTIONS and FEEDBACK to use in between your 3 private coaching sessions. 

>> Completion Care Package. After you fully complete all lessons and coaching calls, I’ll share with you several posters to hang up and keep near and dear to you for reminders. A list of Date-Night ideas. A done-for-you marriage meditation to help you tap into that place of deep love and respect. And a special podcast on how to get more of what you want or need in your marriage. You will receive your care package the first week of April.

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